be kind. not performative.
Treat every person with dignity. Curiosity is welcome; humiliation, harassment and deliberate cruelty are not.
COMMUNITY GUIDELINEShow we show up
how we show up
for each other.
simple rules for a community that feels safe, respectful and human.
respect every boundary.
No one owes you attention, contact details, physical closeness or another meetup. A no is complete.
make room for difference.
Racism, sexism, queerphobia, ableism and other forms of discrimination have no place in this community.
keep private things private.
Do not share another member’s photos, messages, identity or personal story outside the circle without permission.
show up honestly.
Use accurate profile information, communicate clearly and respect other people’s time when you join a meetup.
safety comes first.
If something feels wrong, step away. Contact us so we can review the situation and protect the community.
NEED TO REPORT SOMETHING?
tell us. we’ll take it seriously.
For safety concerns, guideline violations or uncomfortable experiences, contact the WeTheSame team directly.